Not a defect.
This morning I was able to put words to this. A difference in personality is not a defect in the other person. So many times, I see people looking down on others because they are different in some manner.
Differences among people are called the most extraordinary of things being human.
Let's extend that thought.
• A difference in income level is not a personal defect.
• A difference in education level is not a personal defect.
• A difference in job position is not a personal defect.
•A difference in upbringing is not a personal defect.
•A difference in race is not a personal defect.
Maybe the defect lies in the need to elevate oneself at the expense of others.